We have four boys they are very active. We are looking for someone or someone's who can help watch during appointments, date nights and emergencies. We would prefer a babysitter who is bi- lingual english and Italian, we are trying to learn Italian. Our children are all very different, different personalities. The wife has alot of anxiety and needs help on some days. My oldest child will be in and out of appointments for seizures and medical issues as well as wife being ill.